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December 23rd, 2025

A Taste of Transcendence Hey there! I'm Lorianna from Buffalo, New York. I may not fit society's idea of "normal," but who wants to be normal anyway? Being transgender has given me a unique perspective on life and love. I embrace my true self and all the beauty that comes with it. 🌈 I'm looking for someone who can app...

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Transgender Cutie Seeking Love in Ithaca! Hey there! My name is Shayne, and I'm a transgender person living in the beautiful city of Ithaca, New York. 🌈 I wanted to write this ad to let you know a little bit about myself and hopefully catch your attention. Being trans has been an incredible journey for me. It has taught me so much abo...

Trans Man waiting for right date with hot beauty Handsome Trans Man for Dating in New York Hey! Thanks for looking at my ad. This is the first time I've done this so bear with me plz. I am Jared, FtM trans man. I transitioned at age 25 and I just turned 30. Come and meet me!  Check my personal profile @FtMJared29 and say hi!&n...

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Looking for Love and Adventure in the Plattsburgh-Adirondacks Area! 🌈❤️ Hey there, lovely people of Plattsburgh-Adirondacks! My name is Kayley, and I'm a proud transgender individual who's ready to dive into the exciting world of dating. 💖✨ Living in this beautiful part of New York has its perks, but exploring it with someone special would make it even better. W...

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