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February 27th, 2026

Looking for Love and Adventure in Plattsburgh-Adirondacks! Hey there! My name is Kayla, and I'm a proud transgender individual living in the beautiful Plattsburgh-Adirondacks area of New York. 💙🌈 I'm excited to put myself out there and find someone special who appreciates me for who I am. One thing I absolutely love about being part of the LGBTQ co...

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