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July 6th, 2025

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A Sensual Journey with Teressa Hey there! I'm Teressa, a transgender lady from Ithaca, New York. I love embracing my true self and being part of the LGBTQ community. It's all about living authentically and loving who you are, right? 💖 I'm looking for someone special to share fun times with - maybe we could grab a cup of cof...

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